Monthly Archives: February 2012

The Most Fun We’ve Had All Month (March 2012)

Urs’  Most Fun…

Our sons Luc (6) and Liam (4) and I have our Sunday skiing routine down and it’s great! We leave the house for Snoqualmie Pass around 830 am, stop at Starbucks (a non negotiable as far as Luc and Liam are concerned!). After the usual getting dressed and putting the ski gear on drama, they start ski school at 1030 am and I am off for a cross country ski.

I skate up the slopes and hear this one about 10 times every single time: ‘Hi buddy, you are going the wrong way!’ Never knew….At the top of the lifts I hit the Mt Catherine loop trails (great name!) and enjoy a skate ski. On the way down I love blasting by folks on downhill ski.

1230 sharp Luc, Liam and I reconvene and then it’s time for lunch (more often than not with one of Luc’s friend from school). After that, maybe a bit more skiing, fooling around in the snow until it’s time to pack up and head home.

Lauren’s Most Fun…

Enjoying the mountain air, scenery, and the company of good friends! What could be better? We spent the weekend near Mt. Rainier with Bill Stokes and Lois Maag, Barbara Placek and John Thomas, all of whom have been dear friends of mine for over 30 years. (I met Bill and John my first week in graduate school which will give you some idea how old my MBA degree is!) Hiking, skiing, good wine, plus lunch with a view from the top of Crystal Mountain were all included.

Dealing With A Co-Worker Who Drives You Crazy

The Only Boat You Ever Control Is Your Own

Intro by Urs Koenig, Phd, MBA,  Redpoint Succession and Leadership Coaching

Have you ever tried changing someone who drove you absolutely crazy but had no interest in changing? You? Of course not! I know, me neither!

Those of us who have ever tried to change a co-worker, direct report, spouse or kid who drove us nuts but had no interest in changing know how futile that effort is.

Take it from someone who is highly passionate about helping people getting better: don’t waste your energy or time. As our teacher Marshal Goldsmith puts it well in our article this month: the only boat that you can ever control is your own!

Dealing with a Co-Worker Who Drives You Crazy

By Marshall Goldsmith

Almost all of us work with someone who drives us absolutely crazy — one person who consistently frustrates us or makes us feel guilty or angry. Dwelling on how much we hate these coworkers is never a great idea. If you believe, as I do, that it’s our own behavior that holds us back from achieving as much as we can, then one of the larger impediments to our progress is the time and energy we waste being upset with someone else — especially someone we can’t change.

Not sure what your behavior has to do with someone else’s craziness? An old Buddhist parable may help illuminate the issue. A young farmer was paddling his boat up the river to deliver his produce to the village. He was in a hurry. It was a hot day and the farmer, covered with sweat, wanted to make his delivery and get home before dark. Looking ahead, he spied another vessel moving rapidly downstream toward his boat. The vessel seemed to be trying desperately to hit him.

“Change direction, you idiot!” he yelled at the other boat. “You’re going to hit me!” But his cries were to no avail. Although the farmer rowed furiously to get out of the way, the other boat hit him with a sudden thud. Enraged, he stood up and shouted, “You moron! How could you manage to hit my boat in the middle of this wide river? What’s wrong with you?”

As he strained to see the pilot of the other vessel, he was surprised to realize that it was empty. He was screaming at an empty boat that had broken free of its moorings and was just floating downstream with the current.

The next time you get angry and get ready to blow up because of someone else, just remember: there is never anyone in the other boat. When we are screaming, we are always screaming at an empty vessel. Getting angry with other people for being who they are makes about as much sense as getting upset with your chair for being a chair. Your chair cannot help being a chair; that’s what it is. If you had that other person’s history, genes, family, and life, you would be that other person — and do exactly whatever it is they’re doing that you can’t stand.

You don’t have to agree with, like or even respect the other person; just don’t let him make you crazy. After all, he probably isn’t losing sleep over you. You’re the one being punished — and you’re also the person who’s doing the punishing.

The next time a coworker starts making you crazy, try redirecting your energy to change yourself. The only boat that you can ever control is your own.

Marshall Goldsmith is one of the world’s leading executive coaches and author of the bestselling book, “What Got You Here Won’t Get You There.” Lauren and I are certified Goldsmith Stakeholder Centered Coaches. For more information on our results-oriented executive coaching process, visit http://www.redpointcoaching.com/services/leadership_coaching.aspx.

Mastering The Maze: What Business Owners Wished They Knew About Taxes Before They Transitioned Their Business

Introduction by Lauren Owen

My friend Simon Siegl is a business consultant to independent, family owned wineries. Over the last year, he conducted interviews with industry leaders who have successfully navigated the exit process. Some of these transitions were to other family members, others were to third parties. Although these interviews feature winery owners, the lessons shared are certainly applicable to all family-owned business. The key take-aways?  Tax implications should be tightly integrated into an owner’s efforts in the areas of corporate ownership structure and personal estate planning;  that one’s professional advisors in these areas, including your accountant, need to be knowledgeable and work very closely together; and that all of this takes considerable advance planning time.

John Bookwalter Bookwalter Winery

John’s thoughts:

“My recommendation is that accountants and attorneys have to be in lock step through the process.  Ours weren’t at the time, so my parents wound up getting a sizeable tax hit.  We also had a property tax issue, but we fought that and got them to back off.  I would really recommend that you work with someone who understands taxes – winery taxes – and can manage them well, whether you’ve had losses or gains.”

Bob Betz, Founder and winemaker, Betz Family Wines

Bob’s experience:

“The transaction involved only me and Cathy – the children did not have any ownership.  We had a tax specialist attorney work with us to protect us as much as possible, but even with that, the tax burden was very significant.  We also had the buyer pay certain obligations as part of the deal.  About two years before the transaction, we began personal financial planning with a professional in Bellevue.  He was brought into the discussions about the transaction and helped us structure a series of investments.  He gave us half a dozen scenarios that we could pursue depending on when it happened, what the tax implications were, and what the final figure would be.  So when we pulled the trigger and the check came in everything was set up.  We were ready to respond to tax obligations, cash needs, and tuition funds for the grandchildren.  And we have a nest egg of investments to take care of our needs into the future.”

Patrick Campbell, Former owner of Laurel Glen Vineyards, Owner and Vineyard Manager of Tierra Divina Vineyards

Patrick’s philosophy about the impact of taxes on the transaction:

“Mostly I paid them.  There was some structuring and protecting exposure, but for me the reality is that people ought to pay taxes.  I mean I can’t be yelling at the government for not supporting education when I’m trying to get out of paying taxes myself.  It’s just part of the social contract.”

Michael, Rob and Dina Mondavi,  Folio Wine Partners

Michael’s advice:

“The additional pressure of the financial burden of estate tax at the time of transition can destroy the continuity of a family business.  When you’re a successful company you’re going to be paying 45 to 55% tax.  If you can minimize that burden you can minimize some of the stress – both emotional and financial – on the

family members.

We set up Folio Fine Wines with that in mind because we hope the company will be successful long-term.  I had the luxury of both my son and daughter being in their mid-thirties, being very passionate about the business and being very involved and capable in the business.  So we were able to set up the company when it had very little value with my son and daughter owning 39% each.  The employees have 12%. Then as the value grows in the future and my wife and I die they will have estate tax on our 10% ownership, rather than the majority of the company.

One of the reasons for this structure was from lessons learned when we transitioned from the privately owned Robert Mondavi Corporation to public ownership.  Because of the community property laws of California, when we were privately owned my father and mother were each 50% owners.  My brother, sister and I did not start receiving stock until my parents’ divorce in the 1970s.  My mother distributed some to us and we were able to purchase the balance of her stock.  That’s when my brother, sister and I first got our shares in the Robert Mondavi Corporation – when it was private.  When it went public my brother, sister and I were employees, and we had some stock options.  The rest of the stock remained with my father until his demise.  Most of that was impacted pretty heavily by estate taxes which is what influenced me to try and set up our company so that the next generation owned the vast majority of the stock.  Therefore, when my wife and I die it will not be a traumatic financial problem for the family.”

For more information onSimon’s practice, Coefficient Consulting, or his article, please contact him at 206.660.9738 or simon@coefficient-consulting.com. For more information on Redpoint’s succession planning work, visit: http://www.redpointcoaching.com/services/index.aspx.

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